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Teen Dating Abuse Hotline
Teenage Research Unlimited reports that 20 to 30 percent of teens who had been in relationships say that their partners constantly checked in on them, harassed or insulted them, or made unwanted sexual requests via cellphones or text messages. As communication technology has become pervasive, "teen dating abuse has skyrocketed," says Jill Murray, a psychotherapist in Laguna Niguel, California, who’s authored several books on the subject. She notes that attention seems flattering at first, but later the individual "feels smothered and doesn’t know how to get out."
Parents often are unaware of the problem. Though Dr. Murray maintains that parents have an obligation to limit cellphone and computer use to something reasonable. She advises blocking computers and taking away cellphones overnight. Only 18 percent of teens surveyed say their parents set such limits.
In response, this year the National Domestic Violence Hotline in partnership with Liz Claiborne launched LoveIsRespect.org, the first national website and 24-hour help line addressing teen dating abuse. Features include secure chats with trained peers and professionals, advice, referrals and guidance for teens and parents. It breaks down secrecy and shows young people how to regain control of their lives.
Source: The Christian Science Monitor
